SPEECHES:

Speeches will usually occur after the meal, on some occasions the Bride & Groom prefer to start the speeches before the meal. The choice is yours. The Master of Ceremonies (M.C.) will announce the speeches and introduce the speakers accordingly. If no professional M.C. is appointed usually a family friend or relation is asked to perform these duties. Other people that can take on this role as M.C. is the function coordinator at a reception lounge, Disc Jockey or the lead singer in a band if available. Below are brief suggestions on who and what is said during the speeches.

The Bride's Father

The bride's father is the first to speak. In his speech he normally thanks the guests for attending, mentions the groom's parents, welcomes the groom into his family, and says a few words about the joy the bride brought to her parents as she was growing up. He may offer advice to the couple or express confidence in their future happiness. Finally he proposes a toast to the health and happiness of the bride and groom.

The Groom

The groom replies on behalf of his new wife and himself. The main purpose of his speech is to offer thanks. He expresses his gratitude to: . The guests for their presents and good wishes . His parents for his upbringing . His new in-laws for hosting the wedding and allowing him to marry their daughter . All the other people who have helped with the wedding arrangements including the best man and drawing particular attention to the bridesmaids Finally he proposes a toast to the bridesmaids.

The Best Man

The best man replies on behalf of the bridesmaids. His speech should be light-hearted and amusing. He should congratulate the bride and groom and thank anyone who has been of particular assistance to him. He should also thank anyone the bride has asked him to acknowledge on her behalf. His speech may include amusing anecdotes from the groom's past but should not under any circumstances cause embarrassment or offence to the bride. He should also mention close family members or friends who are unable to attend the wedding. He closes his speech with a toast to the bride and groom's future happiness before reading out any telegrams. If there are too many he could just read out the sender names. The bride does not usually make a speech. She may say a few words if she wishes after the groom has spoken.

Name:………………………………………………………

Response & Toast To The Bridesmaids:
Usually made by the groom

Name:………………..………………………………………

Response & Reading of Telegrams:
Usually made by the best man and/or the groomsmen

Name's):………………..……………………………………

 

Optional: YES/NO

Toast to the Brides Parents:
Usually made by a close family friend

Name:….…………………………………………………….

Response:
Usually made by the father of the bride

Name:…………………………………………………………

Toast to the Grooms Parents:
Usually made by a close family friend

Name:…..…………………………………………………….

Response:
Usually made by the father of the groom

Name:…………………………………..……………………