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12
to 18 Months Prior To Wedding Date:
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Announce
the Engagement to family and friends. |
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Set
Wedding Date. |
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Contact
your local newspaper to announce your engagement. |
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Discuss
what type of wedding service & reception you both want
(Very Formal, Formal, Semi-Formal, Casual or Informal, Fancy
Dress). |
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Discuss
the colour scheme for the wedding. |
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Ask
close friends and/or relations to be part of the bridal party
(Matron Of Honour, Best Man, Bridesmaids, Groomsmen, Etc). |
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Draw
up potential guests list. |
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Important
- Inform out-of-town guests well in advance so that they can make
arrangements as soon as possible. |
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Set
Wedding Budget. |
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Inquire
with Church/Marriage Celebrant & Reception Venues/Caterers. |
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Book
Church/Marriage Celebrant & Reception Venue/Caterer
(Some Popular Venues are booked out at least 12 months in
advance). |
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Inquire
and book the entertainment for your Engagement Party. |
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Have
Engagement Party. |
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6
to 12 Months Prior:
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Decide
on the Wedding Gown, Suits, Bridesmaids Outfits and accessories
for all. |
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Purchase/Order
Wedding Rings. |
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Discuss
honeymoon destinations. |
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Consider
bridal suite for wedding night and book. |
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Consider
your Photographer and/or Video Operator. |
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Discuss
Transportation and book (The more popular wedding vehicles
are booked out at least 6 months in advance). |
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Consider
the floral arrangements for the Service, Reception, Bride, Groom,
Bridal Party and families. |
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Discuss
what types of entertainment you both want for the service and
reception. |
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3
to 6 Months Prior:
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Finalise
the guest list. |
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If
out-of-town guests are attending, organise local transport to and
from the service/reception and accommodation for them. |
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Select
the stationery and order/have them printed. (remember thank you
notes). |
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Send
out the invitations - RSVP at least 30 days prior. |
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Organise
a Gift List or Bridal Registry (eg: Grace Bros, David Jones, etc). |
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Check
with the Minister, Priest or Celebrant about required documents
for marriage. |
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Visit
with your Minister, Priest or Celebrant to complete and lodge a
Notice of Intended Marriage form (remember to take your documents
with you). The Notice of Intended Marriage must be lodged with
your "celebrant" no more than 6 months and no less than
1 month and 1 day prior to your intended date of marriage. |
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Ask
a family member/relation or a close friend if they would like to
read a special reading at the ceremony. |
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Confirm
honeymoon reservations, send deposits and check if travel
documents are required (eg Passports, visa, etc). |
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Confirm
the entertainment for both the service and reception and send
deposits. (ensure you receive a written confirmation). |
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Confirm
bookings for your Photographer and/or Video operator and send
deposits. (ensure you receive a written confirmation). |
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Discuss
the style of your wedding cake. |
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Discuss
who will be performing as M.C. (Master Of Ceremonies) - (Some
wedding reception venues provide this service or for a more
personal touch, ask a family member or friend). |
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1
to 3 Months Prior:
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Arrange
for fittings of gowns and suits and set dates for final fittings. |
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Select
a hairdresser and makeup artist. Book for hair and makeup trials. |
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Confirm
floral arrangements with your florist. (ensure you receive
something in writing). |
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Finalise
your menu with the Reception Venue or Caterer. |
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Give
preliminary numbers to Reception Venue or Caterer. |
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Look
at seating plans. |
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Finalise
payment with your Church/Celebrant. |
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Arrange
for a suitable time for the makeup artist. |
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Pick
up the wedding rings. |
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Organise
bucks party and hens night out. |
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Select
gifts for each other. |
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Select
gifts for bridal party and parents. |
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Order
Wedding cake. |
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Purchase
anything you both require for the honeymoon. |
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Confirm/choose
Master of ceremonies. |
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Select
ceremony and reception music. |
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If
you have pets, organise family, friend or neighbour to look after
them while you both are on your honeymoon |
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3
Weeks Prior:
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Pick
up the Bridal Gown, Bridesmaids Gowns and accessories. e.g.
(shoes, pantyhose, lingerie, hair accessories, garter, pillow for
rings etc) - (3 x b's Something Blue, Brought and Borrowed) |
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Book
restaurant for rehearsal dinner. |
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Inform
the bridal party the date of the rehearsal/dinner. |
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Confirm
with the bridal party the addresses that they are to be dressed
at. |
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Follow
up with the guests that have not responded with RSVP's. |
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Arrange
transport for leaving the reception (if not already organised). |
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Practice
your wedding vows. |
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2
Weeks Prior:
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Finalise
numbers with the Reception Venue/Caterer. |
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Write
your seating plans and place cards. |
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Finalise
your seating arrangements with the Reception Venue/Caterer. |
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Have
the bucks party and hens night out. |
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Organise
your mail to be held at the post office or have someone collect it
for you if you plan to be away for more than a week on your
honeymoon. |
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7
Days Prior:
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Confirm
the hairdresser. |
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Groom
should get a haircut. |
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Double
check honeymoon arrangements. |
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Pack
for honeymoon. |
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If
you have pets, reconfirm with the person that they are still OK
with looking after them. |
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Practice
your wedding vows. |
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3
Days Prior:
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Pick
up the suits. |
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Purchase
travellers checks if leaving the country for your honeymoon |
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Rehearsals
and dinner for bridal party. |
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Confirm
with the members of the bridal party what you would like them to
do on the day of the wedding. |
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Organise
someone to pick up the cake. |
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Organise
someone to pick up the flowers. |
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Organise
someone to transport the wedding accessories. |
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Organise
someone to transport the wedding gifts after the reception. |
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Organise
someone to return any hires. |
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Arrange
refreshments for the bridal party while dressing |
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24
to 48 Hours Prior:
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Confirm
final times with makeup artist, photographer, car hire and video
operator. |
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Confirm
the bridal suite and arrival times. |
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Confirm
flowers and pickup times. |
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Pack
the car for the honeymoon. |
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Review
schedule with wedding party. |
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Practice
your wedding vows. |
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Have
a early night. |
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The
Wedding Day:
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Arrive
early to the hairdressers. |
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pick
up the cake. |
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pick
up the flowers. |
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Have
the payment envelopes ready for the Best Man. |
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Check
that the Best Man has the rings. |
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R
E L A X and
let others help you both. |
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Arrive
to the ceremony on time. |
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